One person simply cannot speak for a whole fandom. One person’s attitude is not the whole fandom’s attitude. Saying something like “Sones are rude” or “VIPs are arrogant” is very short sighted and prejudiced. Yes, some Sones are a bit bitchy. Does that mean all of them are like that? Of course not. If you judge all fandoms by the first fangirl you come across, you’re going to miss out on the best parts.